Mothers can do anything
(a few months in the life of a Ukrainian mother with
many children in Bulgaria)
Tell us how you came to Bulgaria.
We did not plan to come to Bulgaria. You could even say that it was by
accident. We already thought of where to go. We decided that because the
language in Bulgaria was close to Ukrainian, it would be easier for the child's
education to adapt. On the way we met a guy who brought us by car to Ruse and
then we came to Sofia. And so we stayed here.
What made you want to leave?
The war, the explosions, it was scary. It's very important for a child
to study, to continue his life normally.
How did you find out about Caritas?
I called some friends, asked where we could get help and they directed
me to Caritas Sofia.
How do you feel in Bulgaria?
Good. But I worry about my relatives in Ukraine. If I wasn't so worried
about them, it would be fine.
What challenges did you face at the beginning?
Housing first, work, medical care. My eldest daughter needed a dentist,
I had to pay 320 euros. With the school we solved the issue very quickly. On
March 12 we came, on March 16 we already met the teachers and the coach at the
sports school. Our acquaintance whom we met on the way helped us a lot. He was
with us everywhere. He knew Bulgarian, Russian and English very well.
How did you find a job?
I applied at Lidl. They arranged a number of issues very quickly -
medical care, Bulgarian courses, employment contract, everything. But the job
itself was difficult. My hands hurt a lot at the beginning, especially at
night. But not anymore, I'm used to it now. There are electric trolleys and I
learned to work with them. There was training and I managed to pass the exam.
Now I work mainly in the bakery.
All the children are now at school in a sports school, only the youngest
doesn't go to kindergarten yet. We are sorting that out now.
How has Caritas helped you?
Caritas Sofia helped me a lot. I was very worried about how I was going
to manage to pay both rent and bills, especially in winter, so now we save a
lot of everything we get from Caritas, to manage after the three-month program.
My oldest daughter is 19 years old and helps me a lot. If it wasn't for her, it
would be very difficult for me. It is impossible for a single mother. My salary
is 1500 BGN, so the help from Caritas is very useful for us.
What would you wish for?
I only wish for one thing - to have peace. No war. When the information
about the terrible violence in Bucha started coming in, I packed my bags and we
left. I didn't want to risk my children's lives. I didn't know how things would
turn out next. Whether the troops would stop or continue to take over
territories. In the first days there were explosions in the village next to us
- Byala Cherkva, 1-2 kilometers from our home. It was very scary. Every time I
had to go down into the shelter with my children, I faced the uncertainty of
whether a bomb fell on us they would find us in those shelters or not.
How did you manage to organize the departure?
My husband is in government service. The state arranged bus transport to
a border town and from there everyone got as far as they could. We travelled
through Romania by Bulgarian bus and got to the border in Ruse. From there we
were picked up by car - the Bulgarian who helped us. It was a great happiness
for us.
Two weeks
after the start of the war in Ukraine, the family decided to leave. They took a
bus to another city in Ukraine, then through Poland, they reached Hungary,
where the family remained for a month. During the stay in Hungary, the kids
managed to calm down from the stress from the sudden evacuation of their home
and the change of the environment. Meanwhile, the priest communicated with the
Bulgarian Orthodox church inquiring about accommodation and a potential job. He
received a positive answer and the family commenced their journey to Bulgaria.
They have been in the summer house of the St. Mina monastery for over a month
now. Alexey is still looking for a more
stable job and hopes that soon the kids will be enrolled in school and in
kindergarten.
The premises,
where they live at the moment, are not suitable for the winter. Thus, at the
end of the summer, they will have to look for a new place to live. At this
point, he found out about Caritas Sofia’s housing programme. He found out about
Caritas Sofia from the groups in the social media. After visiting the St. Anna
Refugee and Migrant Centre, he is thankful for the care and the support he
receives. He shares his happiness for the help his family receives, and for the
help that is available for other refugees from Ukraine.
To benefit
from housing support at the end of the summer when the kids start school and
kindergarten and the summer house at the monastery is no longer suitable for
the family he sees as a great opportunity. He also realized that he can receive
assistance with the process of enrolling his kids to school and kindergarten.
There still a long way ahead in the journey of settling in, but the family
feels supported by the Caritas Sofia team in accessing basic services and help.
As a servant
of the Orthodox church, Alexey wishes
for a unity among the
people and he hopes
soon to be able to return with the whole family to their own home in Ukraine.
Voucher coverage in June 2022
